
St Benedict's Catholic College
Newsletter - Friday 8 June 2018
PRINCIPAL'S REPORT
Dear Parents and Carers
The teenage years are pretty tough ones and there are, as parents know, extremes of mood and plenty of highs and plenty of lows. The hardest part of parenting is often responding appropriately when children and young people struggle or become upset.
Parents use two common responses that are usually ineffective.
One ineffective response is to dismiss their struggles. This happens when we are too busy to notice what's happening with our kids. We can also dismiss their struggles due to impatience or frustration. I’m sure we have all heard the mantra to just “suck it up”.
The second response is to show sympathy when a child or young person experiences difficulty, disappointment or hurt of some kind. Sympathy is a natural reaction but it doesn't really help a child. We can become maudlin, sad and upset when a child needs us to be strong. A sympathetic response can sometimes even lead us to a poor response in dealing with our child’s concerns: blaming and attacking others in an effort to be “seen to be doing something” to make a sadness or disappointment go away.
Empathy is key in developing growth in young people. It is experiencing emotions of concern at the suffering of others and adopting the perspective of another. It’s different to sympathy, which is feeling sorry for someone. It’s about demonstrating our concern and letting our kids know we get it. That we feel it too.
We can show empathy by saying things like: “I get it”, “I hear you”, “Ahh, I can see that you’re feeling…..”, “That stinks, “I understand.”
Pairing your words with a matched emotional response, love, comfort, warmth and a willingness to sit with them as they express their emotions shows our kids we get it and validates for them that they have every right to feel the way they do. After all, there’s no such thing as wrong feelings. We can’t help how we feel about the things that happen to us as parents, and neither can our kids. We don’t need to agree with how they feel, nor do we have to view their reaction as a reasonable response to what’s happened. It’s all about showing our kids that their message has been received, and that they have a soft place to land. The conversations can come later.
Last Sunday we celebrated the wonderful Feast of Corpus Christi, the Feast of the Body of Christ and the time when we celebrate the Institution of the Eucharist. While Corpus Christi is, generally speaking, a minor feast of the Church, for many Catholics, particularly those in Europe, it is an annual celebration. In many of our local communities, this weekend involves a “festa” including Eucharistic processions and the assembling of extended families to share a meal. For the Church on the whole, the Feast of the Body of Christ symbolises the Eucharist and Communion, identifying the belief in the death of Christ and His resurrection.
Staff are busily marking half-yearly exams and compiling school reports as I write. I look forward to reading this year’s reports and congratulating students whose marks reflect improvement and whose outstanding efforts are shown in their “Learning Behaviours”. This year’s half-yearly school report brings St Benedicts into alignment with all other Catholic Schools in the diocese. We have removed the “comment” section on each subject page and included additional, more specific information about content mastered. We have retained the Academic Care comment which should reflect a student’s own path to learning through their goal-setting conversations.
Happy Birthday to the Queen and enjoy your long weekend with your families. Travel safely if you are away from the Macarthur region.
Michael Hanratty
Principal
FROM THE ACTING DIRECTOR OF MISSION AND VISION
“This is my body. This is my blood.”
This week we celebrated the solemnity of Corpus Christi - a day of observance that honours the gift of Eucharist. We are celebrating that the Eucharist is truly Jesus' Body and Blood. He was the last and greatest sacrifice to let us attain eternal life with God! The importance of the bread and wine become the focal point of our faith this week, and we are reminded of the solemn importance of the sacrament of Eucharist.
St Vincent de Paul Winter Appeal
This year we will again be supporting the wonderful work of St Vincent de Paul through their annual Winter Appeal. Students will be focusing their prayers and support over the next five weeks to this cause. The Social Action team will be visiting Academic Care classes over the coming days to remind students of the importance of this charitable organisation. St Benedict reminds us in his rule to “have equal charity for all” (RB: 2), and our support will help those in our local and extended communities who are doing it tough this winter.
How can we help? We will be collecting new and clean good quality blankets, socks, winter clothes and scarves to give to those who are living rough. Additionally, we will be asking for coin donations to give to the charity, which will be used to support local projects that are needed.
We will be holding our annual ‘Bennie’s Bring a Blanket’ on Friday 29th June, and students are encouraged to get involved in this evening to not only help us raise funds, but to help build awareness of these social issues within our community. Thank you to the families in our community who have already brought in beautiful hand made blankets! Your support is greatly appreciated.
Year 12 Bishops Gathering
Last week, our Year 12 students were invited to spend the day with Bishop Brian Mascord. The students, along with Mr McAteer and their Academic Care tutors spent the day at St Patrick’s College in Campbelltown. They had the opportunity to get to know the Bishop and his life, as well as having the chance to ask him questions. Year 12 represented our College with dignity and respect and I thank them for their time and engagement. I extend a special thank you to our College captains who delivered the Gospel and Homily for the Bishop.
HOMILY - BISHOPS GATHERING - Maddison Crawford 2018
“As students we often forget to look at the true meaning of the scripture. In most cases we only ever use the scripture when we need a good quote for our Studies of Religion exam. However, passages like the one we heard here today speaks volumes to us as we undertake our final year of schooling. Paul in his letter to the Corinthians explores the complexities of the body and its many parts. He states that these many parts come together to create one body, in spite of their differences so that they can walk together with Christ. To place this in terms in which we as students understand, I will compare it to the challenge that is the HSC. I know that at my school, a great level of emphasis is placed on the way in which we must work together as a cohort, just as the parts of the body work together. Our results in the HSC, whilst based on how we work individually as our own “part”, are also dependent on the greater performance of our grade as whole; as a body. This is what Paul means, that working together as one is complex, we know this. There are ups and there are downs; friendship struggles and bad marks, yet we are unable to do this alone. Just as Paul creates the image of a body needing all of its parts to work, we are not made to live the Christian life alone, or to undertake our HSC individually, we need each other.
As I speak of our cohorts as a body, I must speak to each of us as individual parts. Each of us are unique different parts that create a greater whole. Paul says in verse 18; “But in fact God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be.” This asserts that we are each unique, we have different talents, different interests, different passions and yet as a whole we work as one. So whilst, we often wish to be as smart as the person besides us or just as funny, we forget that we have our own role within the body and within society. In this we find that we need each other because that is the way God wished and designed it to be. This is the point of Paul’s passage, to value our unique role within everything we do and recognise that each member of the body can use their unique gifts to serve each other and our community, just as we serve each other in the HSC.
On a more poignant note away from marks, the HSC is a stressful time. It is a time in which we must care for one another as human beings. Paul refers to this in the passage by stating that “there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it, if one part is honoured, every part rejoices with it”. As we leave here today and head back to school counting down the days until our Trial HSC, we must remember to look after ourselves and to look out for our peers.
I’m sure many of you who sit before me today watched Toy Story as a child and took great pleasure when Mr Potato Head’s body fell apart and was put back together the wrong way. So I will leave you this today, I’m sure there will be days where we feel like our parts are in the wrong places and not working the way we wish, but rest assured, just as we saw Mr Potato head put his pieces back together with the help of his friends, we can come together as individual parts to work together to place our pieces back in the right place, to make one cohesive body.”
UP COMING DATES TO NOTE
Year 11 Western Sydney U Day - Wednesday 13 June
Wellbeing Week - Tuesday 12 June - Friday 15 June
LIVE - Friday 15 June
Year 7 Technology - Design and Find - Friday 22 June
Bennie's Bring a Blanket - Friday 29 June
HOSTING A JAPANESE STUDENT IS FUN!!
St Benedict’s College will be hosting a small group of 15 co-ed Japanese high school students, (13 girls and 2 boys) from 1 to 12 August.
We are inviting school families to consider hosting a Japanese student during their time at St Benedict’s College.
**Home stay hosts will be paid a tax free allowance of $400.00 for each student, which will more than meet the costs of hosting.
Last year’s host families enjoyed the experience very much and found it most rewarding and memorable.
Why not consider hosting a student in your home & enjoy this great experience?
CONTACT: Bill and Margaret Clark on 0418 215 990 or 0488 777 886 or
COLLEGE SPORTING WEEK
Congratulations to the following students who were nominated as MVPs for Week 6
NRL/UFC:
Jade Chambers, Cameron Thistleon
Swimming:
Liana Corbo
AFL:
Brodie Charlton
UFC/NRL:
Julian Aloisi
MILO Cricket:
Zander Hulme, Courtney Groot, Thomas Hardy
Martial Arts:
Olivia Hooton, Michael Pavey
Netball:
Lucia Pisciuneri, Cooper Colmenar
Soccer:
Emilie Selakovic, Michael Litherland
Bowls/Indoor Sports:
Joel Shields
Indoor Sport/Bowls:
Jaytee Spiteri
Golf/Crossfit:
Eric Mougios
Kickboxing/Gym:
Monica Smasrian, Nathaniel Murphy
Gym/Kickboxing:
Karla Lay
Dance/Skating:
Ngok Ring
Tennis/Beach Sports:
Jordon Flood
Bowling A:
Tylah Krol
Bowling B:
Damon Siutz
Powerwalking:
Jonty Stead
MISA Sport
Our MISA teams had their first week of competition against Oran Park Anglican College
Year 7 Boys Soccer Win
MVP: Jack Pollard
Year 8-9 Boys Soccer Win
MVP: Riley Hinton
Year 10-12 Boys Soccer Win
MVP: Aaron Kelly
Year 10-12 Boys Softball Draw
MVP: Aiden Fornari
Year 7-9 Mixed Frisbee Loss
MVP: Blake Sapienza
Year 7-9 Girls Hockey Bye
Year 9 Girls Netball Win
MVP: Alannah Dale
Year 10-12 Girls Netball Win
MVP: Georgia Kavanagh, Chenoa Brimble, Gabrielle Hooton
Yours in Sport
Miss Liska
CAREERS
2018 Apprenticeship & Traineeship Expos
With the infrastructure boom we are experiencing, the need for apprentices and trainees has never before been in such high demand. Following on from the success year after year of the Western Sydney Apprenticeship & Traineeship Expo, the time has come to take the model to other parts of our great city and provide our career/job seekers, business and industry, education providers and employers with the opportunities to all come together under the one roof and begin the journey of making the plans for our cities growth a reality.
Brett Carter Events is excited to announce that this year in addition to the Western Sydney Apprenticeship & Traineeship Expo, further expos are being held in the South Western Sydney/Macarthur and Central Coast Regions.
Whether you are at school and looking for a career path, a parent hoping to give your child the best opportunities in life, or a teacher that wants to see their students start off on the right foot – the 2018 Apprenticeship and Traineeship Expos have all the answers you need.
Event dates & times
Western Sydney Apprenticeship & Traineeship Expo
Tuesday 28 August 2018 – 3pm to 8pm
Penrith Panthers Exhibition Marquee, 123 Mulgoa Road, Penrith NSW
South Western Sydney/Macarthur Apprenticeship & Traineeship Expo
Thursday 30 August 2018 - 3pm to 8pm
Whitlam Leisure Centre, 90 Memorial Ave, Liverpool NSW
**Free entry to all expos and registration is not required**
About the events
The Western Sydney Apprenticeship & Traineeship Expo is an annual event dating back 16 years with a rich history in Western Sydney and has grown to a status where it is widely accepted as the premier apprenticeship/traineeship expo in NSW.
The timing of the expo is a hit with families as it allows parents to attend with their children and have those all important career chats with industry experts.
Over 100 exhibitors and 5000 people attend each year.
The model has proved so successful over the years and we are excited to bring this event to other regions and anticipate similar attendance figures at each expo.
The expo kicks off the recruitment process. Exhibitors get the chance to collect resumes and promote their organisation for upcoming recruitment drives.
School Careers Advisers are on hand to meet career seekers and parents to discuss career options.
This is the perfect chance to meet industry experts from a range of interesting fields and apply for apprenticeships, traineeships, jobs and further education from over 100 exhibitors at each event representing industry, businesses, group training companies, registered training organisations and many more.
With a lot of Sydney’s major infrastructure projects underway – Western Sydney Airport, road, as well as community, business and residential developments, there has never been a better time to start your journey on a rewarding career path.