
MWES Counseling Update
October 2023 - Mrs. Franklin, MWES School Counselor
Happy Fall!
I hope everyone had a restful fall break! I certainly enjoyed some down time with family! I'm thankful to see that our students are settling in to their day to day school routines. I'm also very excited to be working my way through classrooms agein for classroom counseling. Classroom counseling is my favorite thing to do - I love getting the chance to work with all 585 of our Braves!
Classroom Counseling - What are we doing?
Kindergarten students will be working on learning all about feeling and emotions! We will practice being 'detectives' as we look for clues to identify how we feel and how others feel. Students will practice looking at facial expressions and body language, as well as how and what others are saying in order to identify emotions.
How can you help? Point out to your child when you are having different feelings. Say I feel sad because.....or I was frustrated when this happened. Pointing out that it's ok to have 'big' feelings, helps our children understand that nothing is 'wrong' for feeling this way. Also, by using positive coping skill such as deep breathing, taking a break, etc. we model appropriate reactions to big feelings. It is also important to recognize when we 'lose our cool' and perhaps even discuss that with our children. Acknowledging that we make mistakes reassures our children that mistakes are a learning experience.
1st Grade students will learn about how using 'whole body listening' helps you to be a more responsibie student. The components of whole body listening are: my eyes are on the speaker, my ears are listening, my mouth is quiet, my hands are to myself, my body is still, my brain is thinking about what is being said and my heart cares and shows respect. Students will hear the books Lacey Walker, Non-Stop Talker and Howard B Wigglebottom Learns to Listen. You can find them both online.
How Can You Help?
Model whole body listening when interacting with your child and others. Play a game - let your child be the 'teacher' while you're the student. Give your 'worst' example of being a non-listener and see if your child can correct you and remind you about how to be a whole body listener. Make it fun - kids LOVE to 'teach' us what we are doing wrong :)
2nd Grade will focus on responsibility and how it relates to choices and consequences. 2nd graders will also consider how their choices affect others.
How can you help?
Often we discuss consequences in a negative light - they are often seen as a punishment. Try to also point out positive consequences. For example, you did your chores as soon as you got home, so you get more play time. All choices/actions have consequences; however, consequences are not always negative.
3rd Grade students will learn about growth and fixed mindsets. Additionally, they will practice using a positive mindset and affirmations when feeling discouraged.
How can you help?
Be open with your child about times you have been discouraged about something and how you got through that situation. Call out negative self talk you may hear from your child and ask them to reframe what they are saying. Encourage your child to try new things and don't be afraid to let them fail! Often we want to 'soften the blow' for our children because we love them; however, failing is part of life - it grows us! Finally, be a family who believes in the power of yet. Instead of I can't do ____, reframe by simply saying I can't do _____ YET, but I'll work hard to meet that goal.
4th Grade students will focus on how time management relates to being more responsible. Students will understand that being 'masters of time' helps them with being less stressed and provides them with more time to engage in preferred activities. They will also learn that to-do lists, prioritizing tasks, paying attention to time and using positive self-talk are all key elements to time management.
How can you help?
Talk with your child about your workload - discuss how you know which tasks you need to complete right away and which tasks can wait. Praise your child when they follow the routines you have established and point out that when they follow the plan, they get more time for play!
5th Grade students will engage in goal setting and learning how having goals connects with responsibility. They will develop a learning goal, while also acknowledging obstacles they could face, as well as members of a support system that could help them as they work through the steps to achieve their goal.
How can you help?
Ask your students about the goal they set. Ask to see the plan we worked on together. Discuss goals you have for yourself and discuss the steps you have taken to achieve them.
Purposefull People (Character Strong)
During classroom morning meeting all students are focusing on the character trait of responsibility - taking action and understanding the impact of our choices. Character Strong provides newsletter for each grade level - they are linked below.
What if Everybody Did That?
If you drop just one soda can out the window, it's no big deal...right? But what if everybody did that? What if everybody broke the rules...and spoke during story time, didn't wash up, or splashed too much at the pool? Then the world would be a mess. But what if everybody obeyed the rules so that the world would become a better place? Using humorous illustrations rendered in mixed media, these questions are answered in a child-friendly way and show the consequences of thoughtless behavior.
Code 7: Cracking the Code for an Epic Life
Life at Flint Hill Elementary School may seem normal, but seven friends find themselves on a path to crack the code for an epic life. Whether they're chasing their dreams on stage, searching for an elusive monster fish, or running a makeshift business out of a tree house, can these heroes find a way to work together to change their community?
The Whispering Town
The dramatic story of neighbors in a small Danish fishing village who, during the Holocaust, shelter a Jewish family waiting to be ferried to safety in Sweden.
It is 1943 in Nazi-occupied Denmark. Anett and her parents are hiding a Jewish woman and her son, Carl, in their cellar until a fishing boat can take them across the sound to neutral Sweden. The soldiers patrolling their street are growing suspicious, so Carl and his mama must make their way to the harbor despite a cloudy sky with no moon to guide them. Worried about their safety, Anett devises a clever and unusual plan for their safe passage to the harbor.
Affirmations Song - LOVED by students in K-2 :)
Contact Mrs. Franklin
I am happy to meet with or talk to you at any time. However, I do ask that you set up an appointment unless you are in a crisis situation. I do have a schedule of classes and groups each day that I like to keep going as smoothly as possible. Thank you!
alicia.franklin@bullitt.kyschools.us
502-869-3000
Counseling by the numbers (as of 10/20/23)
Classroom counseling classes - 35
Individual sessions: 72
Small Group Sessions: 8
Referrals to outside agencies: 30